I don't want to see the beard turn white and the football flutter like a hot-dog wrapper. I don't want to watch a pariah booed in New York, skunked in the media and crucified by frustrated teammates. Pardon me, but am I the only one who'd hate to write next autumn that the most joyful little boy in sports shriveled into an unwatchable old man?It pains me to observe the most hallowed legends -- Ali, Mays, even Jordan in the awkward colors of the Washington Wizards -- trying to conjure more miracles when the body and mind are screaming, "No more! No mas! You're killing me, dude!'' I'm hoping Brett Favre is wise enough to focus on his ghastly final month, when he threw nine interceptions for the free-falling Jets and was roundly ripped in his own locker room, and understand that a similar fate could await him if he returns. There is no Super Bowl to be won with merely a decent roster and a rookie head coach, Rex Ryan, who'll be fortunate to make the postseason in a killer division. Nor are there guarantees that Favre's right arm, which lost velocity after a biceps muscle was torn, ever will have the powerful zip of yore.
I, like many columnists, have a certain man-crush on Favre. It qualifies me to do something I never thought possible: beg and plead today that he retire from the NFL for keeps, this time without tears or regrets or even a press conference. Just bow out and let us remember the collage of wonderful moments, not the ugly picks and nasty commentaries that accompanied his final days.
"Bottom line is, it wasn't good enough," Favre said of his failed season. "I'm sure everyone is going to say, 'He's old, washed up and gray.' Maybe they're right. If that's the case, maybe it's time to do something else.''
Definitely, it's time.
He admits there is little to gain by playing as he turns 40. Isn't his legacy intact as maybe the greatest football player ever -- a champion and an ironman and one of the top five quarterbacks? What exactly is he doing, anyway, at a training facility in Florham Park, N.J., which couldn't be farther from his Mississippi roots and Cheesehead past if it were on another planet? Bada Bing Brett never has had a melodic ring to it; certainly, it sounded all wrong when the Jets, after beating the Patriots in New England and then-unbeaten Titans in Tennessee, tumbled from 8-3 to 9-7 and somehow missed the playoffs. They blamed Favre for the collapse and rightly so. Does he really want to experience another crash? At what point does his legacy take an indelible hit for not knowing when to retire?
"I don't feel I have anything else to prove," Favre told ESPN before vanishing to the deep South to mull his future. "Do I have to redeem myself for the last five games? No. I could be trying to do that until I'm 60 years old. There is nothing left out there for me from that standpoint.
"I'm disappointed with the last five games, sure, but I know I did everything I could have. It's hard for me, but I have to say I gave out down the stretch. I'm not going to make any excuses. If I'm going to play, then I have a responsibility to play at a high level, and I just didn't get it done. I tried to be the best leader I could be, do all the right things and, as I look back, I have no regrets.''
He sounds like he's trying to talk himself into retiring. Let me help push him. After the Jets were eliminated, several teammates criticized Favre on and off the record. Running back Thomas Jones, a respected team leader, said Favre should have been benched in mid-game after throwing three interceptions against the Dolphins in the final loss. "I'm (ticked) off. I don't like it. I know everybody else on the team doesn't like it,'' Jones said. "When somebody's not playing well, you need to come out of the game. You're jeopardizing the whole team's effort because you're having a bad day. To me, that's not fair to everybody else. I mean, you're not the only one on the team."
Favre was hurt by the shot, but it wasn't the most revealing. That came from safety Kerry Rhodes, who noted that Favre has spent recent offseasons living by his own rules -- blowing off conditioning programs in Green Bay -- and couldn't get away with the same no-show attitude this offseason. "If he's dedicated and he wants to come back and do this, and do it the right way and be here when we're here in training camp and the minicamps and working out with us ... then I'm fine with it," Rhodes said. "But don't come back if it's going to be half-hearted or he doesn't want to put the time in with us. You can't have your other leaders here and doing their thing and not be here. I'm sure he works his butt off, but you need a guy to be around and get comfortable. He's a guy you're looking up to. He needs to be here."This will be the tipping point, I suspect, that leads Favre to call it quits. He can't get away with any diva act this time, not after a sour ending, 22 interceptions and the presence of a new coach. One unidentified player told Newsday that many teammates resented Favre because he was anti-social and never went to dinner with them, sometimes disappearing into a special private office at the facility. These were some of the criticisms lodged in Green Bay, where the defense-weak Packers missed the playoffs but, in the end, made the right decision to turn over the starting job to promising Aaron Rodgers. That way, the Packers are one year ahead of the curve and can expect a monster season from Rodgers. As for Favre, his passer rating never rose above 61.4 in his final five games.
True, he was playing with a sore arm. But is that sore arm going away at 40? And in a copycat league, didn't we see strong-armed rookies such as Matt Ryan and Joe Flacco manage games well and hit enough big plays to spawn a trend? If the Jets want their quarterback to be efficient, not dynamic, they're best off with a veteran such as Jeff Garcia than risking more deterioration from Favre.
The problem is that one of Favre's biggest fans happens to own the franchise. Woody Johnson, who has accomplished little with Gang Green except pushing coaches through a revolving door, lobbied hard on the radio this week for Favre's return. "I like him, and I think we can win with him,'' Johnson said. "If you came out here to watch him practice, he's unbelievable.''
Falling in awed lockstep was Ryan. "I know the kind of talent he has and the kind of competitor he is,'' he said. "I would think anybody would want him as their quarterback. Everything will be looked at -- our coaches' input and everything. Sometimes you don't have your best game for whatever reason and we'll take a look. But certainly, I know the respect I have for Brett Favre is great, and it comes from firsthand info. I've seen him up close and personal, and that's good enough for me.''
The hosannas only complicate the process. Maybe they're playing a game of reverse psychology, recalling how Favre returned after last year's retirement ceremony only when Packers management openly urged him not to return. Whatever, my strongest hope is that he decides quickly. No one in this country wants to deal with another Favre stay-or-go vigil. We'll have a lot more respect for him if he puts out a simple release -- say, two days after the Super Bowl -- and leaves quietly. Holding us hostage only exacerbates the familiar and very annoying limbo.
His last public comments did contain an air of finality. "I'm glad I made the decision to come here and play,'' Favre said. "I wish I could have held up my end of the bargain.''
He can repay us by knowing when to depart. That way, a football nation can appreciate him instead of disparage him, a wave of cruelty he doesn't deserve.
Jay Mariotti is a national columnist and commentator for FanHouse.com. He is a daily panelist on ESPN's sports-debate show, "Around The Horn," seen Monday through Friday at 5 p.m. ET. Mariotti spent 17 years as a lead sports columnist for the Chicago Sun-Times and has covered every major sporting event -- national and worldwide -- on multiple occasions.











Reader Comments (Page 1 of 4)
1-24-2009 @ 7:03AM
truckcabbie2 said...
Decent enough column, but you missed a black mark on his career , a big one in my book, to wit, giving his golfing buddy the sack record. His last year with Green Bay was almost a reason to forgive that , but his dramatics before last season, the tears, the flubbed last 5 games have reminded me that in the end, he just another fall down kinda guy. Hope he stays one more to make a fool of himself, the lions could him.
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1-24-2009 @ 2:17PM
Zak Bradley said...
just wanted you to realize, if the jets trade him to the lions, bears, or the vikings, they lose their next three 1st round draft picks, that was in the trade for the jets to acquire him, so i don't think he'll be playing for either of those teams
1-24-2009 @ 10:50AM
Mr. Miyagi said...
Some feel he tanked in the last game so Belichek wouldn't get into the playoffs. See what the coach thinks on Youtube at, "Belichek's Rant"
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1-24-2009 @ 11:01AM
bigflyer said...
Many pundits speak about the NFL as a quarterback intensive league and that certainly has a big element of truth to it; however, when Favre began his career with the Falcons NFL linemen were 250 to 270 lbs. Today those same interior lineman weigh 300 to 250 lbs and are faster and stronger and taller than their predecessors. The linebackers that are hurrying and sacking Favre are faster and stronger too.
Favre has lost armstrength, he never had foot speed, his reckless gunner attitude has never evolved. All told this means he is slower, tired, more vulnerable, and vastly overated today.
He selfishly muddled retirement at Green Bay urinating on his legacy in the process. Now he has the Jets and GM Tannenbaum in the same position. Brett should retire and announce it quickly.
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1-24-2009 @ 2:45PM
DAN said...
thats just stupid , linemen were 300 plus lb back then , some times its better to have people think your a idot then open your mouth and remove all doit
1-24-2009 @ 11:51AM
omnisealcoat said...
Jay Mariotti and the three people who posted comments before me are losers. He should retire when he wants or has to retire. Brett Favre doesn't care about what stupid pundints and couch quarterbacks say. If he wants to play and a team wants him then good for him. Jay Mariotti should retire. If you ever watch around the horn or whatever you know what I mean. I think these corny whimpy losers that talk about Bretts legacy as a reason to retire should start looking at there own legacy or lack there of.
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1-24-2009 @ 4:56PM
nimby said...
I agree omni!!! Have we forgotten how BAD the Jets were prior to Farve? He did nothing but help that s**tty team!!!
1-24-2009 @ 12:31PM
Misty said...
Brett is a fantastic quarterback - but he needed to stay retired from the Packers. He had a great career with them and I don't think he had his whole heart in it with the NY Jets. If he had his whole heart in it, he would of been more involved with the team and not distance himself. The NY fans will show no mercy on him, it will only get worse if he doesn't retire. His love for the game will never die, but sometimes you just have to step up and be a hero from the sideline. He gave football his all, now it's time to stepdown and enjoy the rest of his life, have more time with his family. The NY Jets need to give the backup quarterback a chance to see what he's made of.
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1-24-2009 @ 1:49PM
andyrmci said...
"To Preserve Legacy, Favre Must Leave"
"It pains me to observe the most hallowed legends -- Ali, Mays, even Jordan..."
These two statements contradict one another. He says himself that Ali, Mays, Jordan are 'most hallowed legends'. So clearly their decisions didn't threaten their 'legacy'. So if all things being equal and it truly won't ruin his legacy, then let the man live his life. Only those of us that are not future legends think they are worried about 'legacy'. Every reporter that ever wrote about somebody tarnishing their legacy by playing too long was always wrong. It usually requires illegal betting, performance enhancing drug use, or a double homicide to do that.
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1-24-2009 @ 2:13PM
bigmark said...
Hey Mariotti,
It seems to me that you underestimate Favres benefit to the Jets. It also seems that you buy into the "savior" mentality.(you are not the only one) No one person can carry a team beyond the teams limits. It's still about the sum of its parts. The bottom line is Favre sold tickets! He sold jerseys! He got air time! Farve still has value. He still has skills. But he is no savior. If Jets ownership is dissatisfied and Farve still wants to play, let Farve go to a team that can use him to their advantage. The advantage may not be to go undefeated. But he will sell tickets and jerseys and get air time. It may even be that he can contribute by his play. Maybe, maybe not. The only thing I'd add is that if Farve wants stay in the game and wants to go to another team, go now. Give the team the opportunity to figure out a way to get the most out of his skill set and the dog and pony show. The only way he's going to walk on water is if it's frozen.
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1-24-2009 @ 2:28PM
eddieinnj said...
What about his legacy will be diminished if he plays say 3 more years? He's not going to lose all his records. He's not going to be remembered as a quarterback that DIDN'T throw interceptions. If someone wants to pay him what's it to you? If he throws as many touchdowns as interceptions next year who cares? He's good for the league and fun to watch.
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1-24-2009 @ 2:58PM
Jenny said...
I think he should of stay retire when he said he was. He getting up age and he can play as well when was younger. It time for younger players to play and for him to let go!
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1-24-2009 @ 3:02PM
Aloha Jim said...
Please Brett, just go already. After last year's trade soap opera, I just want to remember you as a player, not a melodrama ...
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1-24-2009 @ 3:23PM
JunkYardDragon said...
Time worn but true: Time waits for no one. You work for a company for two decades and they tell you to move aside. "What have you done for us lately?" You move on, thinking you can still do it well,but you've lost your head and you're heart, even if you give everything that's left. Thank you, Brett Favre, for everything you did for us and the NFL.
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1-24-2009 @ 3:32PM
dtrix10 said...
At what point in time did it become fashionable to blame one athlete singularly for a team's collapse at the end of a season?
It's interesting that Jet players blame Favre for their nose dive that landed them out of the playoffs when they looked like THE TEAM in the NFL this season past, when it was the ENTIRE TEAM that accomplished that ignoble feat.
THE ENTIRE TEAM collapsed, not ONE PLAYER ALL BY HIMSELF.
Before these pups yap, snarl, bark, and point fingers they need to take a good hard look at themselves as well.
The blame can be spread all over that freaking locker room.
Man up, guys. You're ALL to blame.
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1-24-2009 @ 3:39PM
darryl said...
you are a fool. Nobody tells a hall of fame quarterback when its time to stop playing. You are the quy we used to put in right field in little league. Havenent you ever suited up for a game. Probally not.
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1-24-2009 @ 3:51PM
sdh4194 said...
all those hits by 300 lb linebackers over the years adversely affected his abilty to make split second decisions, thus the record number of interceptions. yes, brain damage.
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1-24-2009 @ 4:12PM
prestonfay3 said...
Brett Favre need to walk away quietly. He's done what he could do in the NFL. He's had an excellent NFL career.He's talking about retiring, but is hesitant to say "retire" at this moment to the sports press. Just the same kind of reluctance as when pop stations were reluctant to play some rap songs in their lineups in 1988. Don't injure himself any longer. Just do a short press conference, then exit stage left. And let the facial hair continue to grow gray away from the spotlight!
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1-24-2009 @ 4:14PM
Hi JoAnn said...
Everyone is missing the point. This has nothing to do with Brett Favre and everything to do with Jay Mariotti's inability to come up with anything original. Why write a column that has been done 1,000 times in the last 5 years? Isn't there anything worthwhile going on in sports so we don't have to rehash this same old crap. I thought Jay was better than this.
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1-24-2009 @ 4:47PM
murph said...
“The greatest football player ever” Are your off your nut? The most overrated one maybe. Would Brett be a champion without Reggie White and the monster he was in that super bowl? He hadn’t won one before or since. Would he have tossed all those touchdowns if he hadn’t hung on 5 years longer than he should have? You and your counterparts “man crushing” on Favre is the reason he has lasted this long. You fed is inflated ego and made his consecutive games streak into something of mythic lore instead of what it was. This wasn’t Cal Ripken going out days in and out helping his team win. This was an ego driven quest that like throwing into triple coverage hurt his team more often than it helped it! But getting past the football player and to Brett the husband father and team mate. or neighbor. This is a man who went off to play ball long after his family didn’t need the money while his wife battled breast cancer. This is the son who went off to play football while his mother grieved the passing of his father,and the media applauded him for his bravery. And the son who left the same mother in the path of the most devastating natural disaster in American history. And how about Brett the team mate? The one who told reporters” it isn’t my job to teach this kid (Aaron Rogers) Anything”.. and Brett the community leader swinging a hammer with all those great packers fans who took their own time and money down to Kiln Mississippi to rebuild his hometown . Waite it was just fans wearing his jersey not actually Bret doing any of the actual work.. But you go on Jay beg him to retire so you can build your monuments to him.. In the end though remember Brett is about Brett and he will do what’s best for Brett
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